For Christmas I received a daily planner. I chuckled a little, wondering what I would write in it. Shall I schedule diaper changes? Toddler meltdowns? A friend suggested making a gratitude list. I had done that before and found it helpful, but I often felt a little bit of shame after making the list, as if I had failed by not being thankful in the first place. (Enneagram 1’s, are you with me?) I needed to feel productive. I needed to feel like I was making an impact. I needed to get something, anything accomplished.
Here’s the thing: I already was. I just didn’t notice it. It was like my gratitude list–I didn’t always notice the gifts of my life. Gifts. Gifts can be received…and given. I was discounting the ways I was giving to my children, my spouse, my community, and so on. So beginning January 1 I began a new practice. Read about it on Toledo Moms!
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